Internet communication on the dating sites has its own characteristics, which should not be forgotten. There are several small and trouble-free tricks that will bring the acquaintance from the virtual world into the real one.
- Fill in the
A virtual profile contains important information about a person. Specifying your hobbies and occupation, you automatically get more chances to find someone with similar interests. This means that you will not experience discomfort at the beginning of the conversation. You can always discuss the latest album of your favorite group or movie novelty in the fantasy genre.
- ‘First contact’ rules.
If you have decides to write to a man, then it certainly should not be a banal question ‘Hello, how are you?’. Be original! The message in a playful form will help you to attract attention of the man. If he loves cycling, you can ask him what he does in winter.
- Say ‘no’ to ‘interrogations’.
Men do not like when a woman acts like an investigator, so you should not consistently and persistently ask questions regarding work, income, family and children. It is better to choose an easy style of small talk, and in the course of it you can carefully receive the information you are interested in. The conversation can be on any abstract topics. For instance, tell about ridiculous case that has happened at work. According to the reaction of the man, it is possible to draw a conclusion about his sense of humor, ability to keep up the conversation and to make a decision whether to continue communication with him or not.
- Become a pleasant interlocutor.
Do not talk only about yourself. It can create an impression of a selfish person. Do not talk about your problems and do not complain about life. The best decision will be a positive attitude and a good mood.
A pleasant interlocutor is the one who knows how to listen to the interlocutor, to support him and to finish the conversation in time.
- Do not impose.
If you want to meet with you interlocutor in real life, but he does not offer it, you should not insist on the meeting. A man may not disclose the true reasons for this behavior, so you better start communication with someone else. The same rule applies to the correspondence. If the interlocutor responds rarely or ignores your messages at all, stop trying to establish the contact.
Great advantage of virtual dating is the lack of commitments. If something went wrong in online communication, there is always an opportunity to retreat. If you find someone who really suits you, then communication on the Internet will help you to get to know more about him. Thank to it you will not feel discomfort at the first meeting.